Kujichagulia (Self-Determination) Pronounced: koo-jee-chah-goo-LEE-ah
To define ourselves, name ourselves, create for ourselves and speak for ourselves.
There’s truly nothing like coming home from my HBCU: Hampton University. After months of structure—class schedules, assignment deadlines, events, and responsibilities—being back home feels like I can finally breathe again. It’s a kind of freedom that’s hard to explain. I feel liberated, not just physically but mentally too. Being able to move at my own pace, reflect, and just be has brought me a lot of peace.
But that peace hasn’t come without its challenges. Coming home hasn’t been as easy as I hoped. One of the biggest struggles has been trying to find a job. I’ve submitted countless applications—every day, I’m checking job boards, fixing my resume, and trying to stay hopeful. But the truth is, I’ve only gotten one interview so far. It’s been discouraging. Some days, I question if I’m doing enough or if I’m good enough. The uncertainty feels heavy, but even in all of that, I’ve learned to lean on something deeper—my faith.
If it weren’t for my faith, I don’t know where I’d be. It’s gotten me through so much, especially when I was dealing with my health challenges and balancing school at the same time. My faith reminds me that this moment is temporary. It reminds me that there is something greater waiting for me on the other side of this struggle. I hold onto it tightly, especially when things aren’t going the way I planned.
This month reminded me of the power of perseverance and faith in another big way—my older sister graduated from college with her bachelor’s degree. Watching her walk across that stage made me feel so proud. It was more than just a graduation; it was a moment that symbolized resilience, strength, and hope.
Her success inspired me to keep pushing. It reminded me that the journey is worth it, even when the road gets rough.
My family has never had it easy. We’ve been through more trials and tribulations than I can count. Financial struggles, health issues, losses—yet somehow, we always find our way through. And no matter how bad things get, we always come back to the same phrase: “It’s gonna be alright.” That little sentence has carried so much weight in my life. It’s like a quiet promise that even in the darkest times, light is coming.
I truly believe that sometimes all you need is faith the size of a mustard seed. It doesn’t have to be big or loud—it just has to be real. And right now, that small but powerful belief is what keeps me moving forward. I may not have all the answers today, but I have faith that they’re coming.




